Wisconsin Munches

A munch (a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM.) is a great place to meet like-minded people in our BDSM community. There are several munches in Wisconsin that are open to all. Munches can be found on Fetlife by searching events. Below is a list of Wisconsin Munches and their locations and times. Fetlife is the best source for finding munches and events in your area.


Freya Project

The Freyja Project is a private membership organization, club and community center welcoming alternative lifestyles to explore, learn, share and grow in their knowledge and experiences through education, the promotion of art and culture, and social networking that The Freyja Project provides.  They also host the Hump day munch which is 2nd Wednesday of every month if you want to check out the amazing space.

Kinky Geek Night (KGN)

Kinky Geek Night (KGN) is Madison’s ultimate event for geeky kinksters, and those who love them! We provide a safe and welcoming place to socialize, play games, cuddle, spank, tie, flog, have sex, and follow all of your kinky heart’s desires. All sexualities and gender identities are welcome!  Meets once a month on the 3rd Saturday of the month, must be vouched and vetted, also a mandatory orientation.

The TNG (The New Generation) Madison Group

The Next Generation Madison is a social and educational group for kinky folks aged 18-35. This group is intended to provide a safe, consent-conscious space for individuals to learn and grow amongst their peers, to link them to the community as a whole, and to provide them with support and resources as they explore kink, BDSM, leather, and other adjacent topics. Folks of all identities, orientations, expressions, genders, races, religions, abilities, and skill levels are welcome and encouraged to attend. TNGM events are recurring on a monthly basis and consist of a public munch (Third Thursdays) and an educational event, followed by a play party (First Fridays) at a private, members-only club run by the Freyja Project.

Deviance Madison

A BSDM event held at one of Madison’s newest local night clubs Crucible, generally last Friday of the month, but adjusts depending on the clubs scheduling needs.

CWF Munch

Central Wisconsin Fetlife Munch Group for people in the Stevens Point/Wausau/Wisconsin Rapids areas.
The munch meets on the first Saturday of each month in Stevens Point.

Milwaukee Munch

This munch is held on the third Saturday of each month at Katie’s Diner @ 7pm. 1900 West Clybourn Street, Milwaukee, WI

Waukesha Munch

This munch is held on the first Monday of each month at 6:30 pm at Boomers Sports Pub & Grill. N29 W24483 Watertown Rd, Pewaukee.